.Men are from Mars

.Yesterday I had a chat with a guy friend... we got into a conversation about relationships and he said something about wanting a girl get giddy over him even if he does not like the girl. According to him, it was a very BIG BOOST to his ego and it was cool to boast about it to other people. My jaw dropped the moment he said that and I found that really wrong! I was really disappointed. I mean, Are all men like that? Here's the scenario:

.For the Men, Would you like it if a girl goes giddy for you, but you never really like the girl? One more thing, is it even worth boasting about it to others but treat it as if it's some sort of joke?!

.For the Women, Would you agree with me that Men liking us giddy girls is just a sign for them to BOOST their Ego and that it's sooooo wrong?!

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On my point of view, Men liking it and treating it as if our feelings are like trophies or medals for you to show off to other guys is THE WORST. It may be an "award" or "trophy" for you if you can finally "win" a girl over... but the true challenge and biggest reward there is how long you can keep her.

.Not to be a sexist or anything, but I found it really pitiful towards the part of the guy. I mean, mao nalang jud na'y source sa inyong ego?! Ka.LOL nalang jud!!

.Please tell me I'm not the only one who thinks of it this way...

3 Comments

fredB said...

i think there's nothing wrong of being proud of your girl, but i think its not good to boast those "giddying" girls, kay di mana cla imu. though it would boost our ego, pero its not worth boasting..
at least naay nkaappreciate sa amo...

but not all men are like that...
and i guessdi pd tanan girls ana.. :D

Karissa Yu said...

Dili iya ang girl oi.. dili man girl niya iyang gi.boast.. ang act man sa random girl nga nag.giddy over niya mu'y iyang gi.boast about. Which is just sick!

p0ysama said...

Mao mao.

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